Paul Downes writes about his profound deafness and how a baha implant has added another depth to his hearing

I am 45 years old, married with two daughters aged 22 & 25 and two grandsons. I am profoundly deaf without my hearing aids and first started to lose my hearing pre-school around 1966. I was very fortunate that my father discovered my hearing loss almost immediately and took me to hospital in London and it was those early years which helped to shape my future communication skills.
At the time it was suggested that my parents send me to deaf boarding school, but after visiting the classrooms my father was against this because he feared that I would lose my ability to speak, so I attended mainstream schools with the use of hearing aids and I have my father to thank for having that foresight way back in the 60's.
I found out about the baha via Manchester University Hospital, from the cochlear implant department and I had my operation in March 2007 at Manchester Royal Infirmary.
If I am 100% honest, when I first had the baha switched on there was a feeling of disappointment, which was mainly due to me expecting some sort of miracle and to be able to hear all the things that had been missing for so long. But once the initial disapointment went away and I used the baha in different environments, I began to realise the benefits in being able to understand things more clearly and also discovering in which direction some sounds were coming.
My wife Marie and I have two pubs which are situated in the heart of Trafford Park industrial estate, our trade is made up from local workers, lunchtimes and early evenings and long distance lorry drivers who stay overnight, they come in for a shower and a home cooked meal have a few beers then off to bed in their lorries.
I am very fortunate to have my family around me who very effectively act as my ears. Marie and my father help to deal with the communication as in telephones etc for the business. When I am behind the bar, most of our regular customers know of my deafness and try that little bit harder to help me understand. We are within walking distance of Manchester United football ground so, as you can imagine, both pubs are extremely busy on match days. On these days, I tend to involve myself more in the background work such, as the cellars and the kitchens.
The baha, together with my hearing aids, has added another depth to my hearing (best described as switching on your surround sound on the TV). It doesn’t necessarily increase the sound, but helps me to understand a little better by making some sounds clearer and also makes the sounds more directional, which is good in group conversations
I’m hoping to undergo a second baha operation, which will effectively give me the use of four hearing aids when needed, two baha's and two behind the-ear-aids.
Although my deafness has been deteriorating in recent years, because I communicate so well, most people don’t realise I’m deaf at all, which can create a problem in itself. People tend to think that I’ve heard them, and so make no particular effort to make sure I’ve understood them!
The truth is that I have spent most of my life playing charades inside my head because of my lip reading skills. So long as I have an idea of the topic of conversation, most of the time I only need a couple of words, and can then immediately put into place a sequence which goes something like this......it looks like, it sounded like, so my brain activates and searches for similar looking words visually searching my lipreading dictionary and any other items to help me understand that word or words whilst trying to decipher the rest of the conversation and think of a suitable response. All this takes place in milliseconds and I have noticed that I am becoming more and more reliant on this to help me to understand.
Sometimes it can be quite amusing when I get it wrong but hey we’re only human!

Comments
I was just researching the Baha and found your blog. I had a hearing test this morning and my left ear has severe to profound hearing loss, too. The right ear isn't as bad, but on a downward spiral. My doctor recommends I have the Baha implant. Three years ago, unfortunately, my insurance company denied me the surgery. Hopefully, they will reverse the decision this go 'round. I'm glad to hear it's helping you. When I had a demonstration this morning, I could hear, and hear loudly when my right ear was plugged up.
Anyway, thanks for some insight and your personal experience.
Posted by: Ashley Ladd | February 15, 2008 11:48 AM
I saw an incredibly handsome, well dressed man on the platform of Bristol Train Station. It was Thursday 10.07.08 at 1705 hours. He allowed me to have a good look at his BAHAs. I had never seen or heard of one before and thought they were an exciting new hands free! He allowed me to ask questions, I wished I had taken his mumber or asked him out instead of looking at the incidental technology.
Missed my chance now, unless...???!!!
Posted by: Sonia | July 23, 2008 07:21 AM
Wow that's done it for me sonia, I am never going to cover my BAHA again :o)
Posted by: Paul Downes | July 25, 2008 05:17 PM